Many of these people report feeling a stronger bond with the people who are watching the act.Ī third type of situation occurred when people would deliberately arrange things so as to be seen - either by a neighbor or by people on the street.įinally, all three types of observation situations seem to transcend gender and sexual orientation - both gay and straight males and females can enjoy being watched as they masturbate. Some married couples include watching their partner masturbate in their sexual routine.
Some arranged to repeat the act of 'getting caught' so as to heighten their sexual response. Many of these people reported being shocked and embarrassed others grew bolder as they realized the observation added to their excitement.
Some readers described situations where they thought they had been masturbating in private but either noticed somebody watching or had someone walk in on them. Of these, some said they would like to be watched, while others prefer to keep their masturbation private.
[ Notes: Some people said they have never been watched as they masturbate.
